ultimatum:

if you haven’t made learning about, internalizing and practicing consent in your sex life a priority, i don’t want to be your friend and i don’t want you to listen to my music.

you can start with these:
http://www.phillyspissed.net/node/15
http://www.phillyspissed.net/node/32

and then you might as well read everything else on philly’s pissed’s website.